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How to Build a Wine, Cheese & Jam Board (Clif Family Style) - Clif Family Winery

How to Build a Wine, Cheese & Jam Board (Clif Family Style)

We have a blueberry patch on Howell Mountain, down past the olive trees. It gives us more fruit than we can eat, so every summer we cook it down into preserves.


And every summer the same thing happens. Someone puts a spoonful next to a wedge of sharp cheddar, eats the two together, and goes quiet for a second.


That’s the bite worth building a board around. Most cheese boards are perfectly nice. The ones people bring up on the drive home usually have a jar of something good sitting in the middle of them.


Here’s how we put ours together at home. It takes about fifteen minutes, and most of that is shopping rather than cooking.

The Simple Formula (a.k.a. the 3-3-3 Rule, Plus One More 3)

Look up the 3-3-3 rule and you’ll find about four versions of it, which is a good sign that nobody really owns it. This is the version we use:

  • 3 cheeses. One soft, one firm, one bold.
  • 3 accompaniments. Something crunchy, something fresh, something sweet.
  • 3 meats. Optional, and we mean optional. A board without meat is still a board.

Three of each, and you can stop deciding.


We add a fourth three: three jams. One sweet, one savory, one that doesn’t obviously belong. Hardly anyone does this, which is a shame, because the jam is what makes a plate of cheese taste like it came from somewhere in particular rather than from a grocery store.


People use the names for all of this interchangeably and then feel vaguely bad about it, so, for the record: a cheese board leads with cheese, a charcuterie board leads with cured meat, and a cheese platter is whatever you want it to be. Nobody has ever been corrected at a party for calling one the other.

Wooden board with cheese, nuts, olives and spreads
Image from Clif Family Winery

Pick Your Cheeses (One Soft, One Firm, One Bold)

Go for range. Three cheeses that taste different from each other will beat five that taste the same, every time. One from each row:

  • Soft. Brie, camembert, fresh goat cheese, mozzarella, burrata. The one people reach for first, and the one that takes jam best.
  • Firm or aged. Aged cheddar, manchego, gouda, gruyère. Nutty and salty, holds its shape on a cracker, stands up to a red.
  • Bold. Blue, gorgonzola, stilton. One is plenty. If your crowd doesn’t do blue, use another strong cheese instead: a washed rind, a smoked gouda, an aged sheep’s milk. You’re after contrast more than you’re after blue specifically.

Buy wedges rather than the pre-cut cubes. It costs about the same and looks considerably better.

What Wine to Pour

If you’re only opening one bottle, pour an Unoaked Chardonnay or a Rosé. Both have enough acidity to travel across a whole board without fighting anything on it, and both are easy to drink for people who don’t think of themselves as wine people.


If you’re opening more than one, these are the pairings we keep coming back to:

Unoaked Chardonnay

Pairs With: Brie, camembert, gruyère, aged gouda

Why it Works: No oak means no competition. Crisp citrus cuts through the cream and resets your palate.

Sauvignon Blanc

Pairs With: Fresh goat cheese, feta, mozzarella, anything with herbs

Why it Works: High acid against fresh, tangy cheese. This one is a classic for a reason.

Rosé of Grenache

Pairs With: Soft cheeses, prosciutto, fruit, most of the board

Why it Works: Dry and bright with a little stone fruit, so it doesn’t pick a fight with anything.

Cabernet Sauvignon

Pairs With: Aged cheddar, hard cheeses, salami, anything smoked

Why it Works: Structure and tannin need salt and fat to soften against. Aged cheddar does that job.

Zinfandel

Pairs With: Smoked gouda, aged cheddar, spicy salami, anything with heat

Why it Works: Ripe fruit and a little spice, which is what you want if there’s heat anywhere on the board.

Red blend

Pairs With: Manchego, medium-aged cheeses, charcuterie generally

Why it Works: Softer than a straight Cab and easier across a wide board.

Working with something else? A Merlot blend behaves like a lighter Zinfandel here: soft tannins, very food friendly, good with gruyère and gouda. Sparkling wine goes with everything on a board, including the potato chips you’ll inevitably put out at eleven o’clock.


Whatever you pour, open the white first. Once you’ve had the Cab, the Sauvignon Blanc tastes like water.

Adding the Jam

You’ve seen jam on a cheese board before. A little dish of fig next to the brie, mostly decorative, mostly ignored. Used properly it does real work. It’s also the cheapest way we know to make a board taste like yours instead of like everyone else’s.


Sweet jam goes against salt and age. The sharper and funkier the cheese, the more the fruit has to push against. Savory jam goes toward the meat, bridging the cured, fatty side of the board so the whole thing doesn’t land on one note.


The combinations we make most often:

  • Blueberry jam + aged cheddar. The one that started all of this. Sharp, crystalline cheddar against dark, jammy fruit. If you only make one bite off this list, make it this one.
  • Pluot lavender + brie. Softer, rounder, closer to dessert. Warm the brie for eight minutes first and it becomes something else entirely.
  • Savory onion jam + gruyère and salami. Nutty cheese, sweet-savory onion, salty meat, all in one bite. This is the one people ask about.
  • Peach habanero jam + goat cheese. Cool, tangy cheese with a little heat behind it. A few drops of hot sauce over soft cheese does the same job if you’d rather.
  • Blackberry jam + blue cheese. The classic, and still good. Manchego works if blue isn’t on your board.
  • Meyer lemon marmalade + brie. Cuts through triple cream like nothing else, and it’s good on smoked fish too, if your board wanders that direction.

Three jars is about right. We have put out five before, and the honest result is that people stop tasting them and start treating the board like a buffet.


Spoon each one into a small dish instead of setting the jars out. Ten extra seconds, and it’s the difference between a board that looks assembled and one that looks like a raid on the pantry.

The Wine Jellies (One for Each Cheese)

There is one more set of jars we reach for. We make these in the same Organic Preserve Kitchen as the preserves, using Clif Family wine instead of fruit off the trees, and there are three of them. Which is convenient, because there are three cheeses on this board.


  • Red Wine Jelly with Cracked Pepper belongs with the firm, aged cheese. It’s fruity with a little tannin behind it and a peppery finish, which is what a sharp cheddar or a nutty aged gouda is asking for. It also does well next to grilled meat, and with a square of dark chocolate at the end of the night.
  • White Wine Jelly, made with our Sauvignon Blanc, goes to the bold corner. Bright, sweet and tart in equal measure, and that acidity cuts a tangy blue better than another dark fruit jam does.
  • Rosé Wine Jelly goes to the soft cheese. Watermelon, strawberry and stone fruit, and it lands exactly where you’d hope next to brie or fresh goat cheese. It’s also the prettiest jar on the table, which counts for something when the board is the centerpiece.

Take all three and the fourth three is handled: one jar per cheese, no shelf-staring required. That’s the Wine Jelly Trio, and it’s what we bring when someone else is doing the hosting.

The Extras (Fruit, Nuts, Honey & the Little Things)

None of this involves cooking. It’s the layer that fills the gaps and makes the whole thing look generous.

  • Fresh fruit. Grapes on the stem, sliced apples or pears, fresh figs when you can get them.
  • Dried fruit. Apricots, figs, dates. They hold up all night, which fresh fruit doesn’t.
  • Nuts. Walnuts, pistachios and cashews all work, but a savory mix does more for the board than plain nuts. Rosemary almonds and pistachios go with the whites. Tamari-glazed nuts go with the reds and give you something salty and crunchy in the same bite.
  • Something to put it all on. Crackers, a torn baguette, breadsticks. Buy more than you think you need, because bread is always the first thing to run out.
  • Olive oil, straight up. Pour a shallow puddle of good extra virgin in a small dish, crack pepper over it, tear bread into it. Thirty seconds, and it usually goes before anything else. Set a bowl of hummus next to it if your crowd likes something to scoop.
  • Something pickled. Cornichons, olives, pickled onions. The acid keeps the board from getting heavy.
  • Honey. A drizzle over the blue cheese.
  • A little chocolate. Break a dark bar into rough shards and tuck them into one corner. People find it at the end of the night, which is exactly the right time to find it.
  • A sprig of rosemary, purely for looks. We are not above it.
Clif Family Wine Jelly Trio on a table with glasses of wine and florals
Image by Kristen Loken for Clif Family Winery

5 Things to Skip

  • Overcrowding. A board needs some empty space to look good. If you can’t see the wood, you’ve gone too far.
  • Three cheeses from the same family. Three mild cheeses is really just one cheese, three times.
  • Pre-slicing everything. Cut a few pieces off each wedge so people know where to start, then leave the rest whole. Pre-sliced cheese dries out and looks tired within the hour.
  • One knife for all the cheese. The blue ends up on the brie and everyone is quietly annoyed about it.
  • Cheese straight from the fridge. Cold cheese tastes like almost nothing. Take it out thirty to forty-five minutes before people arrive and it’ll taste like twice the cheese you paid for.

Hosting a Wine & Cheese Night

The numbers we go by, most of which we learned by getting them wrong:

  • Two to three ounces of cheese per person if the board is the snack. Five to six if it’s dinner, which it often quietly becomes.
  • A standard bottle pours about five glasses. For six people over an evening, plan on three bottles and open a fourth if the night keeps going.
  • Cheese out of the fridge thirty to forty-five minutes ahead. Wine goes the other direction: put the red in the fridge for twenty minutes if your house runs warm.
  • A knife per cheese, and a small spoon per jam.

Then set it down in the middle of the room and leave it alone. The host who hovers and refills and rearranges is having a worse night than everyone else, and a board looks better half eaten anyway.

Start with the Jar

You don’t need a plan or a marble slab or a matching set of anything. Three cheeses, a few things to go around them, a bottle you like, and a jar of something good.


Our jams and preserves, olive oil, hot sauce, savory nut mixes and the Napa Noir chocolate bar are all in the Clif Family pantry, made up the hill in our Organic Preserve Kitchen. The wines in the table above are in the shop.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What wine is best for a cheese board?

An unoaked Chardonnay or a Rosé, if you’re only opening one bottle. Both have the acidity to work across soft, firm, and bold cheeses without overpowering any of them. If you’re pouring more than one, match by weight: crisp whites with fresh and soft cheeses, fuller reds like Cabernet Sauvignon or Zinfandel with aged and hard cheeses.

What is the 3-3-3 rule for a cheese board?

Three cheeses, three accompaniments, three meats. The cheeses should differ in texture and intensity: one soft, one firm, one bold. The meats are optional. We add a fourth three, which is three jams, one sweet, one savory, one wild card.

What is the difference between a cheese board and a charcuterie board?

A cheese board leads with cheese, and a charcuterie board leads with cured meat. In practice most people build a version of both and call it whichever comes to mind first, which is fine.

How do you pair jam with cheese?

Match sweetness against salt and age. Sweet fruit preserves work best on sharp, aged, or pungent cheeses, like blueberry with aged cheddar or blackberry with blue. Savory jams like onion work better on nutty cheeses like gruyère and gouda, where they also bridge to cured meats. Serve each jam in its own small dish with its own spoon.

What should I buy for a cheese board?

Three cheeses (soft, firm, bold), crackers and bread, fresh and dried fruit, a savory nut mix, something pickled, honey, two or three jams, and cured meat if you want it. Cheese knives, if you don’t already have them.

How much wine and cheese do I need per person?

Two to three ounces of cheese per person as an appetizer, five to six if the board is dinner. Figure five glasses per bottle and about two to three glasses per person over an evening.

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